Someone Who Is Abusive

images-17When someone’s relationship comes to an end, they can have to the need to carry on with their life. There is then going to be no reason for them to spend time talking about the person they were with.

The Reason

If this is because it ended badly, it will be normal for them to want to put the past behind them. And if they were to spend time talking about the other person, it would have a negative effect on their well-being.

It will be far better for them to live in the present moment, and to have moments when they think about what they would like to achieve in the future. Also, if they are looking to start a new relationship, this will make it easier for them to so.

Caught Up

As if one’s mind is focused on what happened with their ex, it can make it harder for them to attract someone else. For example, if one is holding onto something, it will stop them from being able to pick something else up.

In the same way, if one is energetically attached to someone else, it can stop them from being able open the door to someone new. Or, if they were to attract someone, they could find that they are not available.

A Reflection

If they were in touch with what is taking place within them, this could be something that doesn’t surprise them. On one hand, it could be frustrating, but on the other, it could make them laugh.

However, when one is not aware of how their outer world is mirroring their inner world, it could set them up to see themselves as a victim. The other person could then be seen as being the one who needs to change.

Another Experience

Their lack of self-awareness can then cause them to suffer unnecessarily, and it could take a while for their life to change. Yet, even if their relationship didn’t end badly, it still doesn’t mean that they will want to talk about it.

As far as they are concerned, it’s over, and now it is important for them to move on with their life. So regardless of why it ended, one is not going to want to wallow in the past, and this could be the best thing for them to do.

Avoidance

That is if one is truly able to move on, as opposed to this being a way for them to avoid what is taking place within them. When one does this to avoid how they feel, it is likely to be only a matter of time before what is taking place within them starts to affect their life.

In is then going to be in their best interest to get in touch with their body and to face their feelings. This is unlikely to be too pleasant in the short-term, but it will enable them to actually move on.

Speaking Out

Alternatively, one could end up talking about their ex, and this could be a time when they will give a balanced assessment of them. It is then not that they were all bad, but they were not completely good either.

And as no one on this planet is perfect, it might not be hard for other people to relate to what they are saying. What this could show is that one still loves them, but they are no longer in love with them.